Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Bipolar and Successful, Quit Smoking

I read that something like 70 percent of people with Bipolar Disorder and 90 percent of people with Schizophrenia smoke, whereas smokers in the general population are closer to 20 percent. Smoking is ridiculously expensive and it's slowly killing you. Cigarettes kill more people than all other drugs combined.

Everyone has their own reasons for smoking. I always said, "I enjoy it too much to quit." I didn't only enjoy it, I loved it. I had to go back to Behavior Therapy 101, "What's Rewarding the Behavior?" I realized that my primary motivation for smoking was to feel relaxed. I enjoyed sitting down, taking a break, and deep breathing.

When I did decide to quit, I felt physically ill. I was nauseous, got terrible headaches, was irritable, and my anxiety skyrocketed. It was one of the hardest things I've ever done. I was terribly addicted to cigarettes. The physical symptoms only lasted a few days; the psychological urges lasted much longer.
Something that really helped me at first was to take fake cigarette breaks. I'd go hide out and "pretend smoke" for five minutes. My pretend smoke break involved me taking a break, sitting down, and deep breathing for five minutes.

To stay quit long term, I started spending my smoking money on travel because that's something I really love. My husband and I were spending about $300 per month on cigarettes, and we both quit at the same time. I was having a much harder time staying quit than he did, so he finally suggested that we take the money we would spend on cigarettes every money and spend it on travel. It was money up in smoke anyways. Weekend at the beach or cigarette? I learned to love our romantic getaways and it still keeps me motivated. It's a tradition that we have kept.

On my journey, I found a website that not only convinced me to quit, but also had every possible solution to quitting - http://whyquit.com . Trust me, it's an awesome website if you think you might want to quit. No advice I can give you will compare to the advice and support you will find on that website.

Has anyone else with bipolar quit smoking? What helped you?

15 comments:

marie said...

You have an inspiring and romantic story at the same time. I love how your husband has helped himself and you from cutting the bad habit. Withdrawals from cigarette smoking can be really painful, but if you are disciplined, motivated and loved, you can do it.

Anonymous said...

I went from Marlboro lights to ”vaping”. It's nicotine and water vapor. So at least I'm not getting the tar and junk in my lungs anymore and I'm pretty happy about that :)
I use the eGo-C Twist for reference, it's awesome. They even have them with no nicotine if you don't want that but just like the experience of smoking. It's an alternative anyways.

Amy said...

Thanks for the tip on the eGo-C twist - I love the idea of nicotine free vapor. Do you have any more info about that or a link?I'm sure that would have helped me quit. When I first tried to quit smoking, I tried the gum and patches- I was still getting the nicotine but I wanted to smoke so bad. That's when I realized it was the deep breathing part I missed.

The Bipolar Pianist said...

I don't smoke, but lots of my mentally ill friends do. It's really hard for them, because they really can't afford it. Financially it causes all sorts of troubles. You mentioned that it makes you relax. How many bipolars and schizophrenics have anxiety or trouble relaxing? Lots I imagine. I did read an article and I can't remember the specifics of the citation, but it did say that people mentally ill smokers are more likely to quit then regular smokers. That's helpful at least.

Anonymous said...

A friend led me to read this ~ Yes he is half my age and we have traversed this life very differently, as I am female who has suffered much grief and loss wth children and most family in heaven ~ having said that I stubbed my ciggie, wld just like to say a huge ty to this Aust. fb friend that led me here, we will meet one day. Blessings, may music & positivity alys b wth u xxx

Anonymous said...

You want to stop. You don't like to stink. You don't want to reduce your lung capacity. You don't want to spend the money. And most of all, you don't want lung cancer. As far as vaping goes, nicotine is a natural pesticide. It's purpose is to keep parasites off the nicotine plant. You don't want that in your body. Good luck. Namaste.

Anonymous said...

Interesting! I quit smoking a few times but always end up back at! I hate it but, what is rewarding this behavior is a fantastic question. Unfortunately, a previous attempt to quit had me in such an anxious state that I'm afraid to try again. I'm stable now but what if I try to quit smoking again? Anxiety brings depression and that's a monster I dare not tempt. Perhaps if smoking really does calm me I can learn more relaxation techniques and then try to quit. Baby steps.

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Anonymous said...

Hey, i just wanted u to know that I just found your site, and it all makes sense. I was diagnosed off the record due to the need to remain free of the stigma associated with bipolar disorder. not having access to medication forced me to confront the problem in a purely logical and cognitive manner. so far so good :-) ill be reading from now on.

Jackie said...

I am Bipolar and I have tried to quit many times. Trouble is, when I try I get manic, aggressive, suicidal. I'd rather smoke and manage my stress than be manic.
I have tried everything bar hypnotherapy and am too scared to do that because of my illness.

Anonymous said...

Wellbutrin has cut my cig use in half. I rarely have a full one. Morning coffee is the worst, that's my biggest smoking time. If people can get through the Wellbutrin side effects it's a breeze! You feel so much better. Still have the nagging headache after only 2 weeks at twice a day 150sr. It says headaches would leave too, there only present after my second dose. So I pray they go away, Wellbutrin is great. I take lamictal with my Wellbutrin so it takes the edge off. I'm stuck in the house with bipolar and sad. Just waiting for some warm sunshine. I hate bipolar and depression!!! I want to run away but my therapist said I can't run from myself?? Suppose that's right. Thinking if I'm here there anywhere but here I'm happy? I hate bipolar there's no cure?

Unknown said...

Focusing on something you love is one of the greatest ways to quit smoking. Smoking for me before has been my best buddy that accompanies me through a stressful or a laid back day. Now, I am clean for a year and proud of it. How's your travels with your husband, Amy? Hope you keep it up! :)


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